My Ex-Husband Wants to Kill Me! Or, At Least That’s What I Keep Telling People
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Feb 13, 2016 | 11:19 am PST
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The guy writing all this stuff comes off as massively jealous and completely insecure to the point of being emotionally crippled. Hey bud, you are in need of intense counseling and/or an extended stay in a happy home for the bewildered. Putting aside your obvious hatred for your ex – this website is damaging any possible relationship with your son and, quite possibly damaging to your son himself. Do the right ‘thing’ and take down the website before real and irreparable damage is done – damage that will come back to bite you on the ass.
Seriously how can you impersonate someone then act like this parody of a website does not threaten the well being mental or otherwise of your ex & the child. You are truly a sick puppy & this website will get taken down legally or by public support. You need to grow up, man up & grow a pair. If you really wanted your son back you could go to court. What you are doing is simply narcissistic & delusional. You clearly & seriously need help. I don’t care if anything on the site is it was true, you do not have a right to behave in this manner. To be a Cabadian & behave this way is even more disturbing. You’ve opened up a flood gate now that the public is aware. Don’t be so surprised when you experience a lot of hate by your chooses to make this all public.
You are a sick individual…. if anyone should choose who NOT to believe, it would definitely be you.
Do you think that she agrees with your side of things? Obviously not… but did she make a website about you and all of your shortcomings (whether false or not?) ? You obviously don’t care about anyone but yourself… and think simply because you’re doing this online, it’s ok.
You say your child says to you “why should I care what you write”… it doesn’t even matter if he actually thinks this (I doubt it) you are absolutely 100% (yes 100%) a dead beat dad for even ASKING him what he thinks about what you write online about his mother (like you cared anyway), and putting him through this. Your son is innocent of everything and you using him as a pawn is disgusting.
And, who cares if what you’re doing is “legal” or not… is everything in this world that’s legal morally justifiable? Stop using that as an excuse and be a real dad. That’s why laws change and evolve over time. Unfortunately, the laws that were on the books years back couldn’t forsee the power of the internet, and social media abusers like you.
If you want to fight for your child, then more power to you – do you think a judge is going to grant you more custody when there’s a site like this up? Obviously not. If you really cared about your son, you wouldn’t have this site. Obviously you don’t.
If only I had the time to dedicate to such a wickedly funny site about my ex!
I commend you for your time, diligence, knowledge of the law and most importantly the absolute love of your son. Good on you!
Shoot the Bitch and get it over with…
But that would be illegal and immoral. And I’m nothing if not law abiding and moral:)
Richard. You are the lowest form of scum on this planet. Lets meet up for coffee so I can show you how a real man treats pathetic pieces of shit like yourself. Fuck you and your imaginary high horse. Cunt.
Wow, aren’t you a psychopathic stalker? Of course she’s afraid of you, I would be too. This obsessive website is proof enough of your mental instability. You are engaging in the exact sort of obsessive stalking that is a red flag for homocide. It’s a shame for her and for your son that she didn’t see this side of you before having a child with you. I feel very sorry for your ex; if we were in the same state I would offer her a job. So sad that you are abusing her like this. I will pray for her health, happiness, and protection from your harmful intentions. Hopefully you will see the light and stop abusing her, but personality disorders like yours are notoriously stubborn. However, through God all things are possible, so I will pray for you as well.
Aren’t you a cowardly, lying bitch? Since when is putting up a website stalking? Red flag for homicide? TFF. I feel very sorry for anyone that has a liar like you in their life.
Just to be clear: Are you referring to Patrick or Desiree?
I believe they were addressing the post from “disgusted” who is obviously a nutjob who has not bothered to go read the emails, but has chosen to drink the CBC Koolaid and bought the story. Anyone with half a god damn brain would have realised that It was written by a bitch , to help another bitch avoid getting what she deserves. It was a garbage article written deliberately to be one sided.
Ah, right. Thanks.
Lying? What exactly did I lie about? I gave my opinion, it would have been impossible to lie. That must have been a reflexive response. I.e., a woman (or, as in this case, what you assume to be a woman) opens her mouth, and you reflexively respond with “lying bitch…lie…bitch! Bitch bitch bitch!” Way to keep your eye on the issues, buddy! I can tell you’re a sharp one!
Well, I’m not sure why you replied to my post which was never addressed to you in the first place but…..
Your entire rant was a hate campaign against someone as a result of a one sided story. Investigative journalism? My ass. Where in the orgininal CBC article or in your rant on here, is there one shred of evidence showing or proving that anything said on this site is not true? Bring some, any evidence that any if this is a lie.
Yeah, I am on the issue .
PS, I know you said you’d pray for him but don’t bother doing that for me. As a product of a very religious mother, I’ve learned that religious people need a crutch to get through life. I personally dont have an inferiority complex to a nonexistent being and therefore don’t need prayer.
Cheers!
PS don’t forget to bring the proof or you’ll seem like a psycho who can’t are the forest for the trees.
Whoever created this site is awesome. Expose the truth!!
I think it’s great. My sister sounds exactly like Desiree. Skanky white trash. I don’t associate with her. Good on you for this site
karma will bite you in the ass, or you will be getting it there in your cell. The National news now? way to go! Let the Hershey highway Bring you to your final destiny!
You do realize that publishing true information about someone, no matter how distasteful it might be, is not illegal, right?
No, but it can make you liable for defamation. You must be too broke for any attorney to mess with.
It is only defamation if the statements are false. Desiree knows the statements are all true which is why she hasn’t tried to file a defamation suit.
I am so absolutely disgusted.
Congratulations on being so bloody obsessed with her that you have made a parody website of her as well. This website clearly shows how obsessed you are with her lmao. It makes me laugh that you say you aren’t. If you weren’t so obsessed you’d move on and leave her alone regardless of what she had done although I don’t believe a word of what you have said. Congratulations though you might slowly change the stereo types of Canadians slowly and thoroughly one dick head at a time.
That being said, have fun being miserable for the rest of your life. Taking it out on other people won’t make you feel any better. I hope you get the help you need, you sick fuck.
Absolutely disgusted? Really? There are people being incinerated by bombs right now, children dying of starvation or working in sweat shops, people being sold into slavery, and you are absolutely disgusted over someone expressing themselves on and attempting to get some sort of redress through a website.
I’m, I’m, absolutely disgusted
I do realize that you will have to undergo some serious psychological evaluations in due time, and that your child will turn against you once he has to undergo the same due to your choice of actions! I will no lol Niger converse with a waist of skin!
You must be a CBC reader because you spell worse than someone in grade two. First of all, it’s “no longer” not no lol Niger And, it’s waste of skin, not waist.
Now, since you can’t spell properly,’you probably can’t read either. So, since I’m a nice guy,:I’ll sum up the emails and state that the son, given the choice would most likely choose to live with his father and not the mother.
Reading through a lot of the emails from years back shows just how vindictive of a bitch she really is. She clearly threatened to use multiple ways to threaten him to gain custody of a son that wanted nothing to do with her. A son that she abandoned for over over 9 years of his life. The father even proved in family court that she abandoned the son and she was pissed off that he gained primary custody. Her revenge was to get him deported. Now she’s playing the victim card after she’s got several kids from different fathers and also has a long criminal history. It’s obvious she’s far from a victim here. The real victims are this father, his son, and any children she’s ever had custody of.
Holy shit, awesome site!
I love how the news media released this pathetic excuse for a man’s true legal name. Good luck with the rest of your life chump, it will only get worse from here.
I’m really okay with that, but thanks for your concern.
This small dicked husband is a moron and pathetic loser.
Come on, really? What do you know about the size of my penis? And I believe this website shows that I’m certainly not a moron. Check your facts before speaking! The pathetic loser part, well, that’s subjective – and you are entitled to your opinion…just like I’m entitled to mine…hence, this website. Thank you for supporting my right to freely and openly speak my mind.
It is completely obvious you have a small penis, along with being mentally ill. It’s not your fault and I feel bad that everyone is laughing at you for being so pathetic. You’re not a moron, however your intelligence is going to waste over your rage and sickness.
Do you have any evidence to support that conjecture? I suspect not.
In feminist land, anyone who has the courage to stand up to women behaving badly, must have a small dick. Guys that have dicks big enough to keep women happy just take the shit they dish out. Of course, in feminist land breasts are not sexual organs and one in every three women are raped.
Brilliant website! I believe you and not Desiree. You are going overboard a bit, but it makes great reading.
To the person maintainig this website: I am truly, and deeply, sad for you. To be able to disgrace another human being (good or bad) that much, only shows that you are in a disastrous state of mind. Maybe you should seek help…. indeed, you will never reach a peace of mind by tearing other people life’s apart. I really hope that one day you will understand that happiness comes from peace and forgiveness. That you will be way more serene if you let go of the hate. If you cannot do it for yourself, do it for the child…. as good or bad his mother can be, she is still his mother, and you are destroying this child self-esteem and emotional balance by trying to destroy his mother.
The media does this sort of thing all the time, and with a much wider readership or listening audience. Are they also in a disastrous state of mind?
Richard, you are a piece of shit, fucking White Pride World Wide racist moron, i hope that you’ll end up in jail like other psychopath nerd friends like you, your site is PATHETIC and all you get is worldwide shame…
you little peins you’re gonna have a looooooot of problems. Hope a really nice won’t let you little psychpath go on the internet anymore to destroye lives, to do something like that. Your place is in jail. you should go to kill yourself.
Your daughter is safe AWAY from you, you deserve a lot à pain doing bullshit like that
Your rage and bitterness for your ex is ultimately hurting your son; he loves both of you, but you have made him a pawn in your game of revenge. If you seriously think you aren’t damaging him, you need to consult with a child psychologist. You have said you want to ruin her; so what happens to him then? He lives with her, so I beg you to remember, what you do to her reflects on what happens to him… Welfare? Living in a car? I realize you’re concerned about your son, but to go to such lengths to discredit Desiree is beyond decency. Your son will, in the end, pay that terrible price for your revenge.
This is brilliant. A feature about it hit the NYDN this morning so you will be getting a lot more attention – well deserved.
Good luck and don’t stop telling the truth. I sincerely hope you and your son are permanently reunited very soon sir.
As a woman whom spent three years in a woman’s shelter after my ex told my son he would like to shoot me in the face, you think I would be triggered and telling you off right now. However, during my stay there I would estimate that a third of the woman there were the real abusers and used the system; and their children, to hurt and control their ex’s. I can understand the heart wrenching feeling when your life is taken over by a sociopath and your children’s development skewed, yet being helpless to ever fully resolve the situation because they pull everyone’s sympathy and hatred as soon as you take steps to protect yourself and your children’s future.
I would love to see the procedures default to give children to have their own counsel and support systems. There is always a great deal more under the surface and the real abusers are well versed in making the process as painful and difficult as possible. I am now dealing with my child becoming controlling and abusive and it is breaking my heart.
I commend your efforts and hope that you have your son permanently in your care sooner rather than later. WHEN he is returned to you do not hesitate to get counseling specific to domestic violence even if he seems okay.
Thank you for the encouragement, and I’m sorry for the difficulties you’ve also encountered.
Sincerely.
I wish I would of thought of this 8 years ago, I’ve moved on but damn its a great idea. keep going as long as they let you
I think men get the most unfair treatment in custody battles. It is seriously insane what women get away with and how they ruin so many men’s lives. I seriously don’t know how they live with themselves. What chemical imbalance causes them to become so evil? I seriously don’t know how society accepts this and let’s it continue to happen. This is why there is groups like fathers for justice http://www.fathers-4-justice.org/ Anyway- good for you Patrick. There is always 2 sides to a story, and at least yours is coming out. Maybe a little overboard, but I’ve seen and heard much worse as a result of this very type of thing.
You are obviously a over jealous ex, and so you should be just look at the new guy. He is pretty hot, and those sexy eye’s. Bet he has a bigger penis too. Maybe that’s why she left you for a bigger one. Anyway if a guy did that to me I would hunt him down and kill him, first cut off is ball’s of coarse make him suffer.
Like someone before me mentioned, this was in the NYDN today. It’s a liberal rag but entertaining.
Seriously though, you married a stripper and a drug addict. Did you think you could convert her? It’s always been an unspoken rule, you don’t date ( let a lone marry) a stripper. If they are up there stripping and giving lap dances to 60 yr old men it’s best to assume they aren’t right in the head. And they certainly will not make for good mothers.
But seriously, I think you guys can work through this. Many couples have fights and work these things out. Chris could stay too. Maybe like a live in Nanny.
And btw Patrick, You totally blew that anal story. I realize you’re angry now but at that time I’m pretty sure you would have been willing to use motor oil to get in that ass. When you have some time maybe a rewrite is in order. Change the title too. Something like ” The night I nailed the dancer in the Ass”. That will get some hits.
You seem like a smart enough psychotic fellow, However, its baffling the amount of time, energy and brain power that you have dedicated to this website, obviously you really loved her and probably still do.
Or, rather than jumping to that common assumption that I loved her, could it not be that I am only doing back to her what she did to me in 2012? How is it that everybody completely ignores the fact that in 2012 Desiree contacted every friend, associate, and person she believed to be my family and told them I was a fugitive and hid our son from her for 9 years, in order to turn people against me? Why is it acceptable for her to do that to me but now you all make a big deal about this website?
Please explain to me how you justify such a double standard.
I was just curious why someone would go to all the trouble and be so dedicated to it. I just assumed you must of really loved her cause this website proves how much you hate her. i personally have no problem with the website in fact its very entertaining and informative. it teaches that you shouldn’t be a crazy bitch 🙂
Ha! That’s funny.
The reason I would go through all this trouble is because over the past few years (and back in 2000/2001) I’ve watched as Desiree pretended to be such a sweet caring person to get what she wants from people then use them, then when she didn’t get her way spread terrible lies about them, accuse them of things they didn’t do.
But I really started to hate her when she showed up, out of the blue, in August 2011 and took our son to Arizona then lied to the court about me “hiding him” from her all that time. She was crying and going on about how for 9 years all she ever thought about was one day getting her son back. And everybody ate it up. She didn’t give a shit about how it affected our son, or my friend that had actually been taking care of our son all that time I was in custody; or all the people that were major parts of our son’s life.
And then, we reached the point of never turning back, in January 2013, when she called ICE for no other reason than to circumvent the family court’s custody order and to get custody “by default”.
But that’s all in the past, right? Except that every day I continue to be subjected the consequences of her actions: our son is still in her care, 1700 miles away; I cannot return to the US without the fear that she’ll call ICE again; I cannot return, even to visit, to Los Angeles (where I’ve spent almost all of my life) without that same fear; I can’t go visit my friends or my family in California; I can’t take those lucrative Silicon Valley projects; every time we go to the family court she makes the same kinds of ridiculous, unfounded claims as she made to CBC, namely that I threatened to kill her. Even though her allegations are completely unsupported, the family courts always look out for the poor, innocent single mothers so the monstrous men don’t harm them. I’ve never used force against another person (other than self defence, of course) in my entire life. She’s submitted numerous requests to the family court seeking an order prohibiting all contact between me and our son (I will be posting those here once I finish scanning them). She took away the mobile phone I provided our son and she records our calls on the landline.
She got an order of protection against me, based on her claim that I said I would shoot her, and her boyfriend James Pendleton got an injunction against harassment against me, based on the content of this website. Both of those orders prohibit me from contacting either of them. The problem is, since she took my son’s phone away I can only call on Pendleton’s home landline – which I’m, technically, prohibited from doing.
So, you see, I believe she is an evil, vindictive person who doesn’t care about harming anyone – even strangers – as long as she gets what she wants. And as long as my life is being adversely affected by her actions than I will remain diligent in my efforts.
Sorry this was so long.
I do feel really bad for you, I’m surprised your unable to gain custody of your son through the Canadian family court system….seeing as you are unable to enter the united states and she can presumably enter Canada, you would think they would be sympathetic towards you (check out that Kelly Rutherford case in the states) but you are right that the courts usually always side with the women, if women want equal rights then it should be the same in court.
Unfortunately there’s a law in the US called the UCCJEA, which is also recognized in Canada that provides that the state which will have jurisdiction of child custody matters is determined by where the child physically resides. So, he’d have to be residing here in BC for 6 months before the case could be transferred here. Sucks.
Look, I don’t care what kind of person you are. But your ex is a fucking sick, and has no right to be doing the things he’s doing! I feel very sorry for you and your son. Good luck with all this crap your going thru!
But Desiree is the one that went to the media about this website and brought it to everybody’s attention – not me. SHE contacted the CBC and a bunch of other news agencies – they didn’t find the website then contact her. Before that, this website was unheard of by more than a handful of people. So how am I the one that caused all of this? Sure, I created the website – but Desiree’s the one that caused it to be known by thousands of people on multiple continents.
Holy Fuckin mary Mother of Christ first Canada is stuck with an idiot like Justin Biber, then an asshole like that racist Ted Cruz comes out with a Canadian connection, and now we have the complete fuckin what? What do you even call a Patrick Fox? I dunno, but to the rest of the world, look, so we exported three complete trolls to the USA and we got caught. We’re really sorry. Look, we’re not so bad at all, we’ve given you Alex Trebec, loaned you Richard Hatfield, gave you Martin Short and Dan Akroyd, for God Sake. So wont you please put up with these other assholes and take em all back? We don’t want em here and hey! If Patrick Fox was allowed to return to the USA the FBI could arrest his ass for the stalking, right away. That would be a total bonus. So, this is just s polite request to our terrific neighbours to the South to take this asshole off our hands for once and all.
The fact that you made and maintain this website speaks volumes about you. It is not only destructive to your ex, it is also self descrutive.
You could be ruining your own chances at future employment. You will be seen as vendictive and unstable.
Do the world a favor and get yourself some mental help!
I was aware of that risk beforehand and I consider it a small price to pay for reciprocity with Desiree.
You said: “Richard has absolutely no history of violent, aggressive, or threatening behavior. Nor any history of emotional or psychological instability.”
I find the entire content of this website to be disturbing evidence of the site creator’s emotional and psychological instability. Hopefully the legal system will force you to acquire the help you need.
He really does need help from a psychologist or maybe even a psychiatrist
It’s interesting that so many people are assuming I have psychological problems, based only on some blog posts, and the fact that I’ve set a goal and I’ve stuck to it. What is it about what you see on this website that leads you to believe I have psychological issues?
The way I see it, someone wronged me in a severe way which has had very substantial ramifications on many aspects of my life; I first tried to resolve the matter peaceably, through the court; the court made it clear it wasn’t going to do anything; so, I set about attempting to inform the world of the kind of person Desiree is and the specific evil things she’s done. I don’t get it – how am I wrong in doing the same thing newspapers and magazines and TV news do every day?
This website didn’t exist until AFTER the court ignored our son’s request to come back to me! So what am I supposed to do, let her go about filing false allegations about me in the court, calling my employers and telling them I’m a fugitive? What? And I’m supposed to sit back and do nothing?
You know, you people have a lot of fucking gall to sit on the side, glimpse a tiny fraction of the whole situation then assume you know what’s best.
Right so you stoop down to her low psychological level. And hence is your issue.
28th February Sunday 2016
Hello, Asshole.
Because of the level of aggression you have taken toward a single American mother, Desiree, I must inform you that because you have masterminded this horrible Revenge Site, I have now informed the Canadian Security Intelligent Service recommending you be targeted as a Cyber-Terrorist.
Patrick, you have crossed the line by creating such a Revenge Website that this very Un-Canadian and I am also approaching the NSA alerting them to you evil website against a single American Mother.
Under CSIS Bill C-51, it can applied as narrow or as wide they seen fit.I am targeting you and your aggressive behavior toward an American citizen, Asshole. I will destroy you and your capable ability of creating websites by speaking to Google and Facebook and other giant will remove you puny and insulting website. No real man would attack a single mom. You are a monster!
I will destroy you, Patrick in ways that you cannot possible conceive.
Alright, well good luck with that.
Hey Clayton go suck a big fat one u little fembitch get your mommy to comb your asshairs
Love all the complete B.S. regarding this – but seriously… are there any reported court cases that can be referenced regarding this? If not, well… neither party is serious yet. I have experience with the US courts and from what I’ve read, Canadian courts are even more severe regarding DV cases : http://canadiancrc.com/newspaper_articles/Globe_and_Mail_The_Scales_of_Injustice_11JAN03.aspx
This appears to be some wacky father trying to make the mother of his child look like she’s completely crazed. Sit back and remember that this is the MOTHER of YOUR CHILD. Even if you don’t marry the woman, your ongoing friendship is in everyone’s benefit…. especially your child’s… I wish you the best of luck…. it seems you’ll need it….
Are you retarded? Do you not know how to read? Or are you one of those people that ignores everything that doesn’t fit what you want to believe?
My son despises his mother! She was out of his life for 9 years then came back when he was 11 so that she could steal him away to Arizona and try to get custody with lies. When that didn’t work she took steps to have me deported from the US – again, only so she could get custody. There’s tonnes of proof on this website that she lied about everything on the news and in the court. What more do you need?
My son just wants to come home.
Clayton, sorry your pornhub high definition membership ran out and you await your next welfare cheque in order to renew that membership of yours along with your food stamps. Patrick, I APPLAUD you for the website. So many women out there that are wicked ‘c’s(you know what C word I am referring to) and the C word is probably a compliment for a lot of them. I too have been F’ed over buy a lot of douche bags as well. This is as good as WWE! Only way to resolve this is a match ‘HELL IN A CELL”. Whoever wins gets to keep the son! Seriously Patrick I applaud you for doing this to get back at some of these undesireables in our society, good work!