On January 15, Fox was looking at the access logs of this site and he happened to notice a bunch of hits from the CBC studio in Vancouver. "Interesting", he thought. Over the next few weeks he saw, in the logs, that there were more visits to this site from that same location. His first thought was that somebody who works there just happened to stumble across this site and was intrigued.
Then, a couple of days ago, Fox received a telephone call from a journalist, Natalie Clancy, at that studio. She said she'd like to interview him about this website. Okay, that was unexpected! From some of the information she disclosed, Fox suspected she had spoken with me (either that or they had done a huge amount of investigative work, which was unlikely). Fox thought he should probably provide his side of the story, so that if the story ever got published or broadcast it wouldn't be completely one sided. He agreed to be interviewed.
Yesterday, Fox went down to the studio. He was quite surprised how friendly and professional everyone was. They really made a concerted effort to make him feel comfortable - aside, of course, from the huge camera pointed straight at his head.
Through the course of the interview, Fox was able to gain some insights he wasn't previously fully aware of. For example:
- Apparently, I have been contacting a bunch of news and media agencies, trying to get my story out. The story of how Fox was destroying my life with this website, and how everything on this site is lies.
- Apparently, I contacted the FBI about this website. Though, it's not clear what I would hope to accomplish with that. The FBI's jurisdiction is only within the US - neither Fox, nor this website are within the US. Not much the FBI can do about it. And even if Fox, and this site, were in the US, there's no crime in publishing the truth about someone or talking shit about them.
- Apparently, they (I'm not certain who "they" is, but we'll go with it) spoke to Fox's father and he sternly disapproves of what Fox is doing. That's particularly interesting since Fox hasn't seen or had contact with his father since the 1990's; he wasn't around and didn't contribute anything while Fox was growing up; and, oh, yeah, he's been dead for some years now.
- Apparently, I am still trying to convince people that when Fox and I separated, he took our son, moved and didn't inform me, and then I couldn't find them for that 9 years until Fox hired a private investigator, tracked me down, and contacted me. This, also, is peculiar, since the apartment building Fox and our son were living in when we separated - the same apartment building Fox continued to live in with our son, for the next few years, has records of the fact that he certainly didn't move. In fact, I'm sure a quick public records check would verify that it was me who had moved around so frequently and didn't keep Fox or our son informed of my whereabouts.
- Apparently, I have applied for over 90 jobs and have been unable to get a job because of this website. [Editor's Note: If that's true, then I say "Yay, this website is working!"] But honestly, it's highly improbable that I'm even looking for a job. And if I am, I'm pretty sure my chronic drug habit and Joe Dirt demeanour have a lot more to do with why I can't find one. Remember, this site's maintainers have full access to the access logs of this website - they know exactly how many people go to this site every day, and they know the IP address they connect from. How do you think they knew about Green Valley Hospital and Carrington College? The personal, first hand experience of those who know me is more along the lines of - if I don't absolutely need to find a job then I'm not going to. Right now I have James to take care of me so I highly doubt I'm concerning myself with it. The only reason I looked for a job when I got the position at Apollo Group was because I was with Michael Capuano, who's a total yahoo and can't/won't even provide basic necessities for our child.
- Apparently, I'm trying to convince the world that I'm sincerely afraid for mine and my children's safety because of this website. However, I didn't really start all this "oh, boo hoo, I'm afraid for my life because Fox's a big, scary, murderer guy" stuff until just after I moved in with James Pendleton and Fox posted James' name and picture on this site. I don't think that's much of a coincidence. Let's face it: I don't give a shit about the safety of my children - I only care about not losing my current meal ticket. If my concern was for the safety of my children then why has Fox's firearm ownership never been an issue until the day after Fox mentioned Pendleton on this site? I've known for 15 years that Fox owned firearms; I knew that when our son went to Vancouver to visit Fox they would go to the shooting range; I knew Fox got our son his own, antique World War II rifle.
But what's more baffling than anything else in the universe is, if I really want this site to go away, if I really don't like the publicity it provides me, then why the FUCK would I go to the news media about it? That's got to be the dumbest thing I have ever heard of somebody doing! I mean, if the story got picked up then I can guarantee, 100%, that it's going to drive a lot more traffic to this website - exactly the opposite of what I claim to want. I mean, how am I not the dumbest person on the face of the planet? Perhaps it's my mind boggling stupidity that's been holding me back from getting a job. No?
And, let's say this story actually got aired on the local news; let's say the CBC also put it on their website; I suppose it's inevitable that Fox will run into some people on the street that will recognize him and say "Hey, you're that asshole with that website! Why don't you leave that poor woman alone?" Okay. Fine by Fox, I suppose. Fox probably doesn't care too much about their opinion, anyway - what with them being strangers and all (for those who don't know Fox - he doesn't like strangers). And, there'll be the occasional folks who will see Fox and say "Hey, you're that guy with that website about your ex-wife. Good for you. Fuck that bitch!" And to them he'll say "Indeed! Fuck that bitch. Fuck her in her dirty, nasty, over-used, worn out, catcher's mitt of a snatch."
And, in closing, I say: To all the asshole ex-husbands of the world - Cheers!
You do realize that now that news of this site has reached major media outlets, the whole thing is going to eventually back fire on you, right? It will. As much as you think you are within the parameters of law, there is a fine line between acceptable diatribe and criminal harassment. It’s all about how a court chooses to interpret laws.
Having read through a bunch of the emails that Richard has posted, and the site in general… it really looks like Richard is an ass. He’s also very controlling, and enjoys talking down to people. Namely to Desiree. Your (Richard’s) behavior also shows you are an obsessed stalker.
I do hope that the authorities will take this seriously and finally arrest you for harassment of this woman. I don’t care what she’s done wrong to you… nothing warrants the amount of craziness and obsessiveness that you’ve shown here.
Do yourself a favor… take the site down and get a life.
To add to my previous thought…
As a divorced father of two myself, I pride myself in never having spoken poorly of my daughter’s mother, regardless of the lies she spoke about me. Fast forward 15 years after our divorce. My daughters are both in college, and tell me often how much more they respect me now seeing who their mother really is, and that I never once talked down about her.
You sir (Richard), will have to live life knowing that your kid, or kids, will always see what a disgusting human you are, and how you publicly shamed their mother for your own sick and twisted pleasures.
Patrick, Richard, Douchebag (or whatever your name is), you said –
“Hey, you’re that asshole with that website! Why don’t you leave that poor woman alone?”
If I were you, I wouldn’t be wasting much time worrying about what somebody might say to you.
To the contrary, one can only hope that someone arranges for you to suffer the fate you strongly wish on Desiree. You deserve it.
My best advice to you would be that you start looking over your shoulder, a lot!
You are one sick, sorry, sack of shit disguised as a human being you are. Using your own Son, whom you say you love, as a part of your sick perverted game of vengeance puts you firmly in the class of being a waste of skin, and deserving of all the pain and suffering that Karma can possibly bring upon you.
Go find yourself a shrink that is willing to waste the time to try and help someone like you. Until you have sought out that help and found a way to fix yourself, one can only hope that the courts see fit that your visitation rights will be taken away. Permanently.
Good luck, you’re going to need it.
PS. May the fleas of a thousand feral cats infest your pubic region.
It’s getting enough attention that people are raising money for the legal fees she’s going to need to get this shut down and collect damages from you. Probably a smart move.
Actually, all the money in the world wouldn’t help her get this site taken down. There would need to be a legal basis. She can’t claim defamation because the statements published about her are, in fact, true. Also, the site is not hosted in either Canada or the US. And, since I live on the coast – even if a court did impose a prior restraint on speech by enjoining me from speaking about her, all I’d have to do is get in a boat, go into international waters, and post from there.
This is already old news and nobody will bother with your hatemongering website after another day or so when the novelty has worn off to see that whackjobs like you really exist.. The only thing it does is expose its creator as the mentally ill nobody who obviously has too much time on his hands.
Who’s Richard Riess? Is he related to “Patrick Fox”?
Oh, wait….same loser, different name (of so many).
Keep talking, bubba. That hole you’re digging for yourself just gets deeper with every hateful, sicko thing you mutter. You’re like a trapped rat, hissing in the corner with nowhere to hide.
FUCKING GREAT WEBSITE. EXPOSE EVERY ASSHOLE IN THIS WORLD!
The only asshole exposed by this website is the one who wrote it.
Sad f’n excuse for a human being. Sad f’n excuse for a father. I’m ashamed you are Canadian.
Can You say mental illness !!
I am personally donating money to Desiree’s fund to ensure this woman has an amazing life 🙂
She is on the right track so far by getting rid of this parasite –
Having had my own experience with a jilted and evil ex who did every underhanded thing she could ruin me (it all blew up her face, of course), I have to commend you for the inspiring model for other men who have been treated like shit and were expected to just go away. Women take revenge on men ALL THE TIME, in ANY WAY THEY CAN – why people are so surprised when a man does the same is beyond me. I guess they don’t believe in ‘equality’ unless it suits them.
While I don’t agree with all the content of this website, which is all apparently true, I do commend you for having the bravery and courage of conviction to do this. For standing up in the only way you can, ignoring the obvious backlash you will endure and just saying ‘fuck it – I’m gonna make this woman pay for the horrible things she has done to me, in an original, effective and non-violent way’.
Well played, sir! We men (and, I bet, plenty of women, too) are taking note of the exact way this was done – you should do workshops on it, bro! Maybe that would make evil women think twice and consider the consequences of their actions before they go out of their way to fuck men up.
Amen!
You know what irony is, right?
You are so pathetic
You know you are a psychopath right? To waste this much time and energy on petty revenge is not only sick, but it demonstrates that you are retartedly narrow-minded and you lack some type of intelligence crucial for proper personal, inter-personal, and societal functioning (not saying you lack traditional intelligence as measured through traditional I.Q. tests etc, but you are lacking something which almost causes me to pity you). You won’t stop on account of her, you won’t stop on account of your son (because you don’t actually love him), you definitely won’t stop on account of decency. You won’t stop! We get it! But you are a hell of a loser buddy!
Good for you. Too many people roll over these days, we live in a world of “no smack, no punishment, no rules’ bullshit.
This is not hurting her if she is so happy to share it with everyone.
Why does everyone take the girl’s side? I know lots of crazy cows.
Listen I am not rich nor do I want to be, I am not that smart and don’t care but one thing I do believe in is God, as well as just being a decent human being, and sir you are not doing that. I get it times are tough and you guys have had a falling out. You still have a son who one day when he is old enough to think on his own he will see what you are doing to his mom, so what if she is not the best person instead of hanging someone to dry she is the mother of your child try helping her don’t force her down into a deeper hole. Like you are a poor excuse for a man as far as I am concerned and I would love for you to visit me in Saint John New Brunswick, because sir I am afraid I would have some alone time with you.
its a shame that you don’t put as much effort into working with your ex wife as you have in trying to destroy her. There will be no winners from this. Your poor son will be suffering because of what you are doing to his mother. While I know it is all way too hard for many fathers to see their children, I don’t think you are helping your cause any. All just really sad.
Two wrongs don’t make it right. So she fucked u hard , she is horrific. And you sir are equally has had. Your poor child. He doesn’t have just one fucked up parent. But two EQUALLY fucked up narcissistic and evil parents. Your son is FUCKED for LIFE
Sad, sick loser. The only thing this website shows is that you are a pathetic, mentally-disturbed, little man. Your view on the world is so narrow. You are damaging your son. Imagine if you directed this much energy into something positive, what you could achieve? You obviously cannot see how this portrays you, what a cock.
And yes, every supportive comment, is so very clearly you. No-one else with intelligence, or a right-mind would agree with any of your sad little views. This website is beyond crazy, clearly a reflection of its creator…
I think you miss the point. I’m not concerned with how this site portrays me. I’m not trying to make myself look better, nor am I trying to claim I’m better than Desiree. I’m merely claiming Desiree is a completely evil person.
If I was concerned about how this site made me look I wouldn’t be approving all of the negative comments, like yours. The goal of this site is to be truthful, honest, to provide full disclosure so that Desiree cannot keep getting everything she wants at other people’s expense.
The man is just making a stand. Letting Desiree know that some won’t put up with her crap. Bravo
Fuck Patrick you are one fucking ugly, psycho-looking sweaty cocksucker.
Patrick’s Desperate Attempts To Get People To Listen To Him
*writes a blog about his ex-wife*
rotfl – you’re a fucking idiot.
I hate you Patrick Fox
I’m okay with that.
You sure do spend a lot of time posting angry comments on this website, though.
By the way, you stupid asshole, people read maybe two words of what you write about your ex, and then skip to the comments. We’re only on the site to tell you what a disgusting cunt you are, Richard. That’s all. Thanks for continunig to give us the opportunity to fill the site’s inbox with vitriol against you. So nice for other people in the world besides Desiree and your parents to have an opportunity to tell you you’re an ugly, simpering little piece of dung.
Okay. Thanks for the feedback. Have a nice day, now.
Richard Riess is a loser. I think we all agree on that. And yes, he’s a miserable prick who’s going to completely alienate his son, we all agree on that, too. But that doesn’t mean we should be mean and call him a total dickhead, or a shitface, or a cocksucker, or a cunt, or a deviant slob. No, we should use kind words, hopefully to convince him to be an even half-way decent human being. Let’s be as nice as we can, like this:
Richard Riess is really, really good at being a total dickhead! He is the best at being a shitface and his cocksucking is second to none! And as for being a deviant pig, well there’s no one on the planet that’s a more obvious, more detestable, or more deviant pig than Richard Riess. Yessirree, he takes the shitcake on that as well!
See everyone, how easy it is to make your point and still acknowlege a person’s strengths?
Hmm. And here it is, nine years later, and this website is still online! With all the same wonderful content you and the other feminists and white knights were so outraged about.
Nothing that any of you did has made a single difference. It’s now been almost 11 years since I first put this website online. Hmm.
I guess all I can say is “Fuck you, and have a nice day.”
28th February Sunday 2016
Hello, Desiree!
I hope you are doing well under the circumstances of your Ex-Canadian husband, a very little man who is by definition a psychopath and requires serious therapy. Fortunately he has been kicked out of the U.S., but it also sad he has done he has done all by him own reckless behavior.
I am informing you I have been keeping an eye on the website for the last week and have now decided to inform the Canadian Security Intelligent Service so he may come under Bill C-51 in Canada and hopefully (no promises) be brought under the concept of a cyber-terrorist. Let me explain:
Your former husband has crossed the line in many ways: using your real name: sending information to all your friends and employer: you lost your job as a result of this action and the whole concept of cyber terrorism is making the “enemy (you)” unable to earn money: and in P.O.V. this very Un-Canadian.
Richard is a very sick man and I am extremely positive if he had the opportunity he would physically harm you and it was very smart to get a protection order.
Your husband has come under my watch online and I will what I can as a Canadian to shut him down. And what I suggest you do is get online and write to NSA and explain to someone on a report that this Ex-Canadian has done because no real man would launch cyber-war against a single mom.
I am wishing you well.
I am a Canadian man and this jerk Canadian from B.C./ Vancouver does not speak for me!
In fact, Desiree was fired for using drugs at work, being under the influence of drugs at work, missing excessive amounts of work, being unreliable, and not getting along with her co-workers. This website had nothing to do with her losing her job.
As for your “cyber-terrorism” nonsense: that’s just gibberish.
That Desiree is a single mother is nothing admirable. It just means she makes poor decisions about who to have children with.
I was just looking up how to get back at this bitch in my class then found this website. Magical! Fuck every little bitch trying to start shit and not able to keep it in your face. Little bitches always start shit and try to hide after. Nope. Not around me! Dummy up or get beat down.