Gabriel's visit for winter break 2015
Richard Riess,
I will allow Gabriel to travel to Canada for visitation under the following conditions;
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His visit will not be for the entire duration of winter break. You may have him for the first week. These dates have been discussed and agreed to by Gabriel and are as follows:
- Travel to Canada may occur on either Friday, December 18th, 2015 or Saturday, December 19th, 2015
- Return travel to Arizona will occur no later than Sunday, December 27th, 2015
- The plane ticket from Arizona to Canada and from Canada back to Arizona must be purchased and provided to me prior to Gabriel's departure.
- While Gabriel is in your care you are not to speak about me at all. This includes my home, my lifestyle, the other people in our home, your opinions, or your thoughts. These are unnecessary topics of conversation. I know if this has happened based on his behavior when he returns.
- While Gabriel is in your care you are not to use him to gather information about me, my home, my lifestyle, or the people in my home. Using your child to gather information to hurt the other parent is bad and Gabriel does not deserve to be used in this manner. I will know if this has happened.
- While Gabriel is in your care you are not to use Gabriel to plot or attempt to plot against me, my home or the people in my home. This includes any actions, direct or indirect, which would or could potentially adversely affect me, my home, my lifestyle, or the people in my home. Again, using or attempting to use your child in such a way is bad and Gabriel deserves better.
If you agree to these terms then provide the travel plans for both flights and I will make sure Gabriel sees you for the first week of winter break.
Desiree:
This was not an invitation to negotiate and you are not in a position to be making demands of any sort. You have stated that you will be monitoring Gabriel's communication with me so I assume you heard our conversation the other day. Therefore, you know that I am well aware of your entire situation.
Gabriel has told me he wants to spend his entire break with me - just as he wanted to spend his entire Fall Break with me, his entire Summer Break with me, and his entire Spring Break with me. So that is what I am requesting.
There will be know negotiating and I will not agree to any terms you try to impose. You will soon be homeless; you have no money; nobody believes anything you say anymore; nobody is coming to your aid or defense; you will not be able to secure another job as long as that website exists - and it's not going anywhere as long as you're alive; your boyfriend has reached the point of being fed up and only his sense of decency toward Sage keeps him from kicking you guys out (he knows Gabriel will be fine because of me).
Moreover, I've already submitted a request to the family court for an expedited hearing for an order for Gabriel to visit for the entire winter break (amongst other things). So, why would I agree to your "terms"?