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Please see my comments, inline, below. I really hope you take the time to review all of my responses because as you do you'll begin to realize how ridiculous you sound.

Why do you insist on calling me Richard when it is well established that my name is Patrick? Is it supposed to be some kind of insult? And, if so, how would it be considered insulting? Doesn't it really just demonstrate your refusal to accept reality?

Sarcasm doesn't transfer well in written for between adversarial parties - as an intelligent person should know. Therefore, I will give you the benefit of the doubt and assume you are an intelligent person; and I shall take the aforementioned statement as being literal.

By the way, my earlier message didn't contain any "banter". Perhaps you should look up the definition of "banter".

I shall point out that you were the one that sent something, via mail, to me. Therefore, you initiated the communication. Therefore, if anyone is exhibiting "stalking behavior" it would be you.

I respectfully decline to comply with your request. But again, my earlier message was only informing you that you sent a package to my address in the name of a person which does not reside at my address, and that such package was being returned to you.

I do not require your permission. As long as I am not benefiting, materially, from the use of your likeness then you have no legal grounds.

I think you need to look up the definition of "stalking" as well. It is not possible to "stalk" someone from 1500 miles away. As for the rest of your requests in the above statement, I respectfully decline. You are welcome to file a civil law suit against me if you believe you have been harmed in some way, but nothing that I have done, or will do, violates an laws of the US. Moreover, since both I, and the server which the site is hosted on, are located outside the US neither I, nor the site, are subject to US laws. You can try to take the issue up with the Canadian authorities, but since you are not a Canadian citizen and are not located in Canada then I don't imagine they will do much for you.

You can send correspondence to any name you wish. However, if you expect me to accept it then it must either be unnamed, or addressed to Patrick Fox. If you have ANY evidence that my name is Richard (or Ricky) Riess then I'd love to see it.

Do you have any proof of that? According to the Canadian government, the RCMP, the US Customs and Border Protection, et cetera, my name is Patrick Fox. I have proof to support my claim, which I have forwarded you previously, and your response was that the documents were "falsified". So, I guess you're just smarter than both of the governments, and I guess I somehow faked the fingerprints which were taken by the Vancouver Police and submitted to the RCMP?

You're such a fool. Dude! What is wrong with you?

Good luck with that. My father past away in 1999. If you have any evidence to the contrary please submit it. I suspect you are referring to Steve Riess - I'm more than willing to submit to a DNA test to establish whether there is any biological connection between him and I. Feel free to make the arrangements and I'll provide blood or hair or whatever they require.

Sure. Not that it would make any difference.

Again, you're a fool. The name you put on Gabriel's birth certificate is irrelevant. All it would take is a small sample of your blood, my blood, and Gabriel's blood to determine whether I am his biological parent. Shall we proceed with that? Again, I have no objections to doing so if it would help to make you look foolish.

We've already covered this, repeatedly. I've already provided you a copy of my birth certificate with the name Patrick Fox. You responded that it was falsified. So far I've been able to provide proof or supporting evidence for all of my claims (both about myself and about you), yet you have NEVER been able to provide ANY evidence for any of the claims you've made against me which have been disputed.

Yes, I have a birth certificate; a driver's license; a state issued photo ID; a federal firearms license; a social security card; a social insurance card; numerous credit and debit cards; articles of incorporation for 2 businesses; numerous bank accounts; insurance documents; et cetera - all with the name Patrick Fox. And nothing with the name Richard (or Ricky) Riess. There is no legal document linking the name Richard Riess with the name Patrick Fox.

Moreover, the Toronto Police have a mugshot and fingerprints of the original Ricky Riess, from a 1991 arrest. As you can guess, they don't match mine. And that was one of the ways I was able to establish that I wasn't him - which is why I had to provide my fingerprints to the Vancouver PD and the RCMP. And, if I WAS that person, then I would not be able to legally change my name and there would be a warrant for my arrest and I wouldn't be able to get a PAL or own firearms. Do you see how your claims are just so full of holes?

Sorry for you, but you married and had a child with someone you only know for 8 months and, apparently, didn't even know his name. As I've said: you're a white trash fool and an idiot. It's not your fault, it's just who you are.

Have you ever seen any conclusive proof that my name was ever REALLY Richard Riess? Or that Steve Riess and Peggy Sampogna were REALLY my biological parents? Or that I was REALLY born in Canada? No! You've not. Any such information was based only on what I'd told you. Haven't you ever wondered WHY I decided not to pursue the green card when we were together? Have you ever wondered WHY I was adamant about NOT having direct contact with the people you though were my family? Come on, dude! Are you really THAT clueless?

Desiree:

So why are you so butt-hurt about this whole name/identity issue anyway? What difference does it make to you whether my legal name is Richard or Fox? And how is it in any way relevant to you whether I was born on US or Canadian soil, and which country I am, or am not, a citizen of?

It seems to me that you worry way too much about what's going on in my life and about the reality or the truth about me. If anyone is acting "stalker-ish" isn't it you? You're the one contacting people, trying to prove/disprove things about me. And how has that been working out for you so far? Have you been able to find anyone to confirm that anything you claim to believe is true? That's a rhetorical question - I know you haven't.

So, why don't you stop worrying about what my birth name is/was and about what country/countries I'm a citizen of and maybe focus on trying to be at least a minimally decent parent (from what I understand you're doing a pretty crappy job of that...come on, grounding a child because his grades have declined? Yeah, that'll work (that's sarcasm - actually all that will do is condition the child to try to figure out ways to conceal the "unacceptable" behavior from you)). I don't understand why there are so many stupid parents...oh, wait, yes I do: because the decision to have children is irrational, therefore, most parents are, by default, irrational; and irrational people are, generally, stupid. Therefore, people who make a deliberate and conscious decision to have children are stupid. Hooray for logical deductions.

Or, if you REALLY want to know the realities about me, then just hire an investigators. I'm not sure how much they are up here, but a decent one in Phoenix is about $75/hour. Considering how little you spend on your two illegitimate children you should be able to afford that.

While we're on the topic of names, I find it curious that you've kept the name Capuano, even though you're no longer married to him. Surely Tomlin is a much more dignified name than Capuano. You have to admit, its kind of greasy sounding, no? Kind of...I don't know...Italian?

I would like to entertain, for a moment, a theory you alluded to in your message - that I may have "lawfully and legally changed [my] name".

If that were the case, it would bring up one puzzling question: So? Either way, it would mean that my legal name, at this moment, is Patrick Fox. I'm not certain what relevance my legal name 2, 10, or 15 years ago would have to you. And, either way, it doesn't change the fact that I have a birth certificate with a name that matches my legal name, and my date of birth. Are you suggesting that I changed my name to another person's who happened to have the same date of birth as me? Isn't that exactly what I admitted to doing back in 1993, at our family court hearing in December 2011? Are you suggesting that many years ago, while living in the US, I assumed the identity of a Canadian then lived in the US as an illegal alien; then after coming to Canada as a Canadian citizen (according to the US and Canadian governments) I've assumed the identity of an American so that I can live in Canada as an illegal alien?

Can you tell me even one incentive I would have for pretending to be a US citizen living in Canada, considering that I have little to no interest in moving back to the US?

How can you not understand why I would want to post your emails on the Internet? You make such wildly entertaining claims; then you defend them as though you actually believe them.

Okay, I'm done with you for now. I shall try to find time to update your site soon - I want to display, prominently, on the home page, all of the wonderfully racist things you've said in your emails about Mexicans and blacks - right there next to your employment and contact information.