Waiver of rights
Desiree: I hereby serve notice that, effective immediately, I waive all of my rights with respect to Gabriel, whether court ordered or otherwise, and grant you full discretion in all such matters, including but not limited to visitation and telephone contact. So there is no misunderstanding, I am saying I waive my court ordered right to visitation between now and the next court hearing date of July 21, 2014. Moreover, I waive my right to have unrestricted telephone contact with Gabriel - in fact, if you wish you may impose whatever restrictions and limitations on his use of the mobile phone I have provided him as you see fit. If you want to forbid him from even having it that's your prerogative. If you want to require that I call only at certain times that's fine and only on the landline that's fine. Hell, if you want to completely forbid any further contact between Gabriel and I that's your call. As for the things I have provided Gabriel over the past year, again, it's up to you. If you want me to stop putting money in his bank accounts then say so. If you question the validity of this waiver feel free to check it with an attorney. As long as you have a copy of this email at the next hearing there's not a damn thing the court is going to do to you. If you want a hard copy with my signature on it just let me know. Good day and enjoy your new, untethered authority. Fox
There are 3 items of discussion I can see from your email [above] and I will address them below:
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Gabriel's things: he will keep what he has. This includes clothes, toys, video game gear, the credit and debit cards as well as his phone. I will remain hands-off when it comes to his bank accounts, that is between the two of you. As I understand it, he uses that to pay his phone bill.
This brings me to the next item...
- Communication: I see no reason for anything to change with respect to the communication between you and your son. Calls are not currently monitored, discussed, or measured in any way, for any reason and I don't intend to start now. What I do intend is to put Gabriel on a plane tomorrow.
- Visitation: I don't know how else to explain to you that I think it is important for Gabriel to spend time with you. I agreed if not offered the summer for visitation so with or without a court order I plan to abide by the terms of the summer schedule. There are a few caveats however;
- If you are unable or unwilling to have Gabriel at any time for any of the dates, he can stay with me. This includes having to change dates to accommodate a different schedule if needed (with the exception of the 4 days in Mexico).
- Let me be as blunt about this as I can; If you take my son across international borders using anything but his given name and the ID issued to him by the United States federal government I will use everything in my power to see justice done. That said, I agree to fly our son to California and I agree to fly him to Canada.
Gabriel will be packing his things today and tomorrow I will take him to the airport and he will board the plane to California. I will receive him on the 8th of June as directed in your other communication. Please respond as soon as possible if there is anything that is preventing this
If you wish to make the Waiver of Rights legal and bin
Obviously that email was sent prematurely. To wrap it up;
Please respond promptly if there is any reason our son should not leave tomorrow.
If you wish to make the Waiver legal and binding you will need to submit a document to the commissioner. Until then I intend to continue things as they currently are.
Please stop being so full of shit. You requested the court prohibit ALL contact between Gabriel and I. So your attempts, now, to seem civil or to care about what Gabriel wants are annoying. You're only pretending to be nice right now because you think I'm up to something and that my email was just a ploy to trick you into something.
Just be yourself and be consistent, for Christ's sake. At least I despise you and wish for you to get cancer and die a slow painful death every day - and I don't try to pretend that I have any tolerance for you.
I don't believe there is anything more to be said on the matter. I've relinquished my rights so it's up to you and Gabriel to figure out what you will let him do. That being the case I see no reason for us to have to communicate further.