Cease and Desist
Fox,
Please stop emailing my co-workers' personal email accounts that you managed to obtain through my LinkedIn account pretending to be me. This is harassment and will be treated as such if you do not cease. Your continued attacks have made me fearful for myself and for our son. Moreover, your aggressive behavior has made it impossible for us to communicate, co-parent, or work together to provide a safe, nurturing, and positive environment for Gabriel; which is all that you and I should be concerned with. I am willing to work with you in regards to Gabriel but not in this hostile environment you have created.
Sorry. Can't help you. I recommend requesting a restraining order if you believe I have anything to do with whatever you're talking about. Oh, wait, you claim I'm not a US citizen, and I'm not currently on US soil, and the actions you're referring to were not committed within the US, so the US government and courts have no authority over me, or whoever is responsible. Oh well, I guess you'll just have to suck it up and accept that your past is going to finally catch up to you.
There are a lot of people you've burnt over the years and any one of them could be the source of your current grief.
Good day.
I would like to take a moment to respond to a few of your specific points. Please see my comments, inline, below.
Fox,
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This is harassment and will be treated as such if you do not cease.
Technically, it's not. For the parties allegedly receiving the emails, they can simply ignore them. As for it being harassment to you - well, I believe every email you have ever sent me has already been published on the Internet or made public record by virtue of being submitted as evidence in our court proceedings. Therefore, there is no private or confidential information being released. Anything which has been, or will be, published or distributed is either your own words or is completely true - therefore, there is no libel and no basis for a claim of harassment.
I've no knowledge of any "attacks". Please elaborate. Also, again, the information and artifacts which have been made public were, in fact, already public and are made up almost entirely by your own actions and/or words. If you are, in fact, fearful for yourself then you are fearful of nothing more than what you yourself have said and done.
I might also point out that you once attempted to threaten me by saying you would publish all my information (I believe you said, in court, that your intention was to go to the media with it). So, isn't what's happening now just the same thing you tried to threaten me with...except that I have no big secrets that I don't want surfacing.
That's grand! So, I assume things are not going well for you - because that's the only time you pretend to have any interest in what's best for Gabriel and to speak as though you've ever made any attempt at being amicable. Shall we review your emails with a focus on chronology and point out how you've been persistently hostile and uncooperative...except:
- when the California and Arizona courts determined California would have jurisdiction - because you knew you were going to have to return Gabriel to me;
- when we went for the first mediation - because you knew you had screwed up by taking Gabriel to Arizona and the court was not happy with you;
- when I was released from ICE custody in February 2013 - because you knew the court was going to tell you to return Gabriel to me.
Can you think of ANY other times you've been anything but difficult (often to Gabriel's detriment)?
So, it seems, the only time you've tried to be nice is when you realize that you're screwed and have no chance of things going your way.
As for what I am concerned with: Gabriel's safety and development is the first concern. And since I believe you are a truly bad person who lacks any sense of what is decent or good, I don't believe that any good can come from Gabriel being under your guidance. You're the kind of person who would accuse a man of rape just to save yourself the embarrassment of admitting you had a one night stand with him; the kind of person that would lie about being forced by your father to have an abortion just to get your boyfriend to go along with your plan to have a child that you knew he wasn't ready for; the kind of person that would file a false report on your child's father to get him arrested so that you could get the child (even though the child didn't want to be with you); the kind of person that will turn a blind eye to their fiancée's meth use and shoplifting around your children. That's a bad person. Plain and simple! Those are not the kinds of things that decent people do. (Notice: everything I just mentioned is all stuff that you've done!)
I see no hostility on my end. I've remained calm, civil and very methodical. Regardless, we're way past the point of trying to work together. I gave you the opportunity to do what's right and return Gabriel to me last summer and you flatly refused. There are no more chances left for you.
P.S. When do you leave for Mexico? Are you flying or driving?
Hey, Desiree!
If you're really so interested in "co-parenting and working together to provide a safe, nurturing, and positive environment for Gabriel" then why have you not requested the court return us to joint legal custody? Why have you not voluntarily returned the arrangement to joint legal custody?
Wouldn't that be in keeping with your claim of wanting what's best for Gabriel?
Once again, you're saying one thing and doing the complete opposite.
Fox