Gabriel's passport

The marijuana is absolutely a choice.  There are other pain relief
medications available which will not get you high.  No one has a gun at
your head forcing you to smoke marijuana.  And, marijuana is a narcotic.
You are using it on a daily basis.  Therefore, you are using (and spending
money, which you claim not to have) on drugs...to get high.  You don't
actually have fibromyalgia, nor do you have chronic and debilitating pain.
If you do, and if you really "require" daily marijuana use to alleviate
that pain then guess what?  You are clearly not able to take care of two
children.  The police, the CPS worker and the investigator all say that you
appeared to be active and functioning fine.

I know how much your raises are because you told me in your prior emails
when you were trying to make me feel small and inadequate.  You also stated
in a prior sworn declaration that you've been receiving the maximum
allowable raises each year for the past 4 years.  But in your latest
declaration you've sworn, under oath, that you have not received ANY
raises.  Oops!  I don't think the court will push the perjury
issue...though they may.  Who's the pretentious ass now, huh?  (By the way,
that's not what "pretentious" means - perhaps you meant "obnoxious"?)

No, the child support is not forgotten.  We will be going to court in a few
months to address those back payments, and finalize the divorce.  One
difference between my idea of the cost of raising a child and yours, is
that I also look at the long term and indirect costs (like university,
unanticipated medical expenses (braces, surgery for his right eye - there
have been very successful stem cell advancements that can recover his eye -
but I don't think your insurance will cover it and it's around $30,000), a
car when he turns 16, etc) you think the cost of raising a child is just
the day-to-day expenses.  What the hell are you going to do when that other
kid of yours finishes high school (assuming he finishes high school) and
wants to go to university?  Who's going to pay for that?  Clearly not you
or Michael.  The $700 a month is not for day-to-day expenses - it's all
inclusive.

A 13 year can most certainly use a credit card, just like any adult.  There
is no minimum age to use a credit card.  And if the passport office doesn't
take credit cards, then there is no reason he cannot go to an ATM and get
cash.  As for you using Gabriel's credit card - you are expressly
prohibited from doing so and if you ever do I would, very much, look
forward to having you charged with credit card fraud:).  It would appear
you've become irrelevant.

Now, as far as you not having $165 - normally, I'm not the type to rub it
in, but you've just put so much effort into trying to belittle me when I
was in a rut, even though for me it was just a temporary setback (not a way
of life).  You just make it so hard for a person to not want to rub your
face in it.  But, nevertheless, I'm too mature and dignified to stoop to
that level.  Besides, you have enough problems coming up over the next few
months.  I shall just watch quitely, from afar things crumble around you
and you find yourself incapable of doing anything to stop it...and no one
left to help you.

If you hadn't done all the terrible things you had over the last couple of
years I might even feel bad for you.  But I don't - because you've just
been such an evil person:).

Good night, Desiree.  I shall see you tomorrow morning, at court.

Cheers,
Fox
		

I forgot to mention, previously, that you made an error in your
declaration, regarding Gabriel being in Arizona for more than 6 months.
Under the UCCJEA there is an exception to the 6 month residency rule  for a
state to become the child's home state and to gain jurisdiction.  In cases
where a parent gains custody of the child as a result of that parent's bad
faith actions, and takes the child to another state, then the six month
rule does not apply and the child's home state shall remain with the
original state, who shall also retain jurisdiction.  No matter how long
Gabriel is with you in Arizona, as long as his presence there is the result
you calling ICE for the explicit purpose of having me arrested, detain, and
deported so that you would gain custody of Gabriel, then the six month
clock will never begin.  And, since you have already admitted that you were
the one that called them and that you did so in order to gain custody of
Gabriel, California will remain his home state and jurisdiction will remain
there.

Moreover, although I am currently physically in Vancouver, I have been
maintaining a residence in Los Angeles - my mail goes there, I have a
credit card linked to that address, I've been ordering things at that
address, and I still use my California license, which has that address.  A
child custody proceeding may only be moved to another state if NIETHER
parent maintains a connection to the current state of jurisdiction.  As
long as I maintain an address in California, jurisdiction CANNOT be moved
to Arizona unless I consent - even if the bad faith exception did not apply
(but, it does in this case).

Fox