I shall address each point in turn, inline:
On Sun, 2012-09-09 at 17:53 -0700, Desiree Capuano wrote:
Once again you overstep your boundaries with my future wife
Please clarify how I have overstepped my bounds. I requested financial
assistance with Gabriel's expenses and she turned it into an argument
again. I am not clear on what you are referring to. What exactly are
my bounds? Perhaps if you clarified that I might avoid overstepping
them.
, and unlike you, my marriage to her will actually be legitimate.
My marriage to Desiree is completely legitimate. If she knows of any
legal basis for why it is not then she should provide that as evidence
at the divorce proceeding which will likely be in March 2013. She is
obviously not that interested in divorcing me, otherwise she would not
have canceled the divorce proceedings in Arizona last year. And if you
believe so strongly that our marriage is not legitimate then why doesn't
she try to have it annulled? And why don't you get on her case to
finalize the divorce? Doesn't it bother you that the person you think
loves you so much is dragging her feet on divorcing the person that you
insist she doesn't love?
Are you really this transparent, or is it just the safety of emails
that cause you to expose too much of yourself?
Again, you're being vague. What are you referring to?
Your still that pathetic kid that bullies a girl because he a) likes
her. b) is rejected by her.
I have no recollection of being rejected by Desiree. Please provide a
concrete example of her rejecting me. And as for liking her, well, I
think we've already established that white trash people repulse me and
that I consider the three of you very white trash. You remeber:
tattoos, dirty homes, bad credit, emotionally unstable, UFC, bumper
stickers, pool leagues. Need I say more?
I really don't care what your motivation is, but you've now lost that
privilege.
What privilege? What the hell are you talking about?
We have had enough of your belittling and bullying, dude you'll never
get her back, and you cannot hurt her anymore because she's not 18 and
weak, which is your target group apparently.
How am I being belittling? It seems to me that I am only stating facts.
Are you guys always so ambiguous? And on what basis do you believe that
I would want her back? Please tell me anything that I have said or done
that would give a reasonable person that impression?
Your basically a child molester in my eyes, you prey on weak or
vulnerable girls and then torture them with your insufferable head
games.
Again, how are you coming to this conclusion? Tell me one head game I
have played. I have been consistent in my statements. I have only
insisted that Desiree do what any responsible parent would.
Unfortunately, for you, that would include not allowing a waste of skin,
drug using, shoplifting loser to be in charge of my child. Those are
facts - you pled guilty to shoplifting less than a year ago, you use
drugs, and you have accomplished nothing in your 37 years of life.
I will reiterate for you, as you seem obtuse as to my role within my
family; I protect and defend the ones I love and you are an obnoxious
fuck that has insulted the person I love most too many times.
Again, point to a specific insult. Speaking the truth is not an insult.
It's the truth. If you or Desiree do not like the truth then that's
your problem, not mine.
God, you really should go back to male prostitution, cause you could
never have a relationship with a woman.
Facts please. What qualifications do you have to make that kind of
assessment?
At least not one with any sense of dignity or self respect..
It seems to me that Desiree lacks dignity and self-respect. People with
self-respect don't turn to drugs when life gets difficult. People with
dignity don't have their child's phone turned off because they're mad
that the child doesn't want to speak to them.
Hell that's the first thing you attempt to deprive your victims of
isn't it you coward?
If you're not going to be clear then what is the point of communicating?
Do you see how, in my emails, I say I believe such because you did this
or that? The fact that you make all these allegations but don't refer
to specific things I have said or done means that there really isn't
anything that I've said or done and you're just pissed off at yourself
because you know that I must be right.
You got a response, be a man and say it to someones face.
I have no problem saying anything that I've said in my emails to yours
or Desiree's faces. But by putting it in email there is a record of it.
If what I'm saying is so bad then submit them to the court to show the
judge how mean and cruel I am.
Otherwise shut the fuck up and restrict your communication to .. How
bout just end it..
Sure, as soon as Desiree starts acting responsibly and providing
appropriate support for Gabriel; stops using drugs; stops living with a
person who is actively engaging in criminal activity; or stops bringing
Gabriel into that environment, then there will be nothing more to say.
You won't change and this has gone on too long.
I fail to see any reason why I should change. Please tell me what
character flaws you believe I have that should be changed and I will
consider it. But be sure to include specific examples of me exhibiting
the behavior you believe is wrong.
But for sure send that documentation on your citizenship.
Will do. However, I don't see how this has any bearing on any of the
current issues. The citizenship of a parent is not a factor in custody
or child support matters. The court is not even allowed to take it into
account. The only reason the court directed me to provide my birth
certificate is because I agreed to. Go read some case law and let me
know if you find any California cases where the court used the parent's
place of birth or citizenship as a factor in deciding child support,
custody or visitation.
In closing, please try to be a little more articulate and specific in
your communication so that I may address the points. This message that
you've sent alleges much but provides no foundation for any of those
allegations. Furthermore, the last I checked the judge told Desiree to
keep her boyfriend out of this. If Desiree does not want to hear from
me the all she had to do was respond to the first email with either a
yes or a no. There was no need for her pathetic guilt trip about not
having enough money to get Gabriel a birthday present.
Have you noticed that through all of this Gabriel has not called her and
she has not called Gabriel? Since she got him that phone he only called
her twice - both times he was returning her call. I'm sorry to be the
one to have to break it to you guys but Gabriel is just fed up with her
too. And he also doesn't like the idea of being left with a
shoplifting, stealing, loser. He also knows what marijuana smells like
and he told me that he could smell it in the house over the summer.
So, I shall await Desiree's check, since she did say she would pay at
least half of those expenses.
Good day,
Fox
