Examples of my traumatizing behavior?
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Mon, Apr 02, 2012, 8:13 AM
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Examples of my traumatizing behavior?
Desiree: When you tell people about how terrible I was when we were together do you also tell them about how before you told me you were pregnant, you softened me up by telling me about the time you miscarried and the time your father made you have an abortion? And how those two things "messed you up so bad"? And do you tell them about how when we went to the hospital when you started bleeding in August 2000 that the doctors asked you if you'd ever been pregnant, or had a miscarriage or an abortion, you said no? Do you include these facts with your stories of my monstrosities? And can you not understand why I would not have trusted you, or why I would have thought you were trying to manipulate things? Do you tell them about how, in order to get me to go along with your desire to keep the baby you promised that you would accept all the responsibility for him (a promise that was not kept). Do you tell them about how I agreed to move back to Phoenix so that you could be close to your mother during the pregnancy, even though I had a good job here and no interest in returning to Phoenix? Do you tell them that you started communicating with your ex-boyfriend around January 2001, while we were still together and living in Phoenix? Do you tell them about how, when we moved to Torrance in 2001, you used to take Gabriel to the day care and hang out socializing with the woman that ran the day care while you were telling me you were looking for a job (she's told me about how you used to joke that it didn't matter because I made enough money)? Do you tell them about how I let you bring your friend from Florida to come to LA and live with us so that you could be with someone you knew? And if memory serves I believe I even paid for your travel expenses. Do you tell them about how your friend brought drugs into the home while I was supporting her? Wow, you're right. What a monster I was. I'm sure you'll deny everything in this message, but that's okay because you and I know the truth about what happened. Fox
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Mon, Apr 02, 2012, 11:39 AM
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Re: Examples of my traumatizing behavior?
Again, this is Kris just to be clear. Um... Yep, heard it all already. You really don't know Desi very well do you? I don't need stories from the past to see you're abusive and controlling and demeaning. It is clear in your emails to her. It seeps through your facade of articulation like venom. How about some more accountability on your part?
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Mon, Apr 02, 2012, 12:35 PM
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Re: Examples of my traumatizing behavior?
Please tell me exactly what I have said or done that has been disrespectful, abusive, controlling, or demeaning. It seems to me that these threads that devolve into arguments usually start as a result of you (Desiree) not fulfilling your obligations as Gabriel's parent. It further seems that as the discussions degrade into an argument it is usually you (Desiree) that starts with the hostility or insults (go ahead, reread the threads). I merely ask questions, or point out matters of law, or present what I believe are the facts of the given situation. When citing cases of me being disrespectful, abusive, controlling, or demeaning please state specific examples - perhaps you can copy and paste the specific things I have stated in my emails. Because I really don't see anything that has been particularly disrespectful. With respect to being controlling: trying to get you (Desiree) to comply with her obligations is not being controlling. And just because the court has not explicitly ordered you (Desiree) to do something doesn't mean you're (Desiree) not required to do it (for example, participating in discovery, or providing Gabriel's medical insurance information). On the matter of being white trash - that is not disrespect. If you look up the behavioral characteristics of white trash you will notice that you (Desiree) possess many of them. So go ahead, show me when and where I have been disrespectful. If you can actually do that I will concede that I have been disrespectful. Fox