Regarding the Conversation Friday, Nov 4th at 5:08pm Arizona time
Fox – you realize this is ridiculous don’t you? Gabriel Is in no harm by living in the same house as Kris. You don’t know anything about him, what he's like.or how he is with your son. Just so you know, he has tried to respectfully stay out of this entire thing (as much as he could) and has supported and promoted Gabriel’s relationship with you from the start. You are assuming an awful lot based on an old record. You should know better than anyone that a piece of paper doesn't determine whether Gabriel's well-being is compromised. Have you spoken with Gabriel about this, whether he feels any cause for concern being here or whether he's ok with what you are now proposing? Before you move forward with this new decision please understand a few things; I was (and am) prepared to give you primary custodial parent, the school year with Gabriel, his birthday and minor holidays. I am prepared to request NO CHILD SUPPORT for either parent, keep Gabriel on my health insurance, handle doctor visits including those required for school, get him school clothes, and be available to anything else he may need throughout the school year. It took a lot for me to agree to all this and I ONLY agreed for Gabriel's sake. My question to you now is - are you really prepared to risk what I've just laid out based on nothing but a record over incidents that occurred nearly a decade ago? I'll leave it up to you, but if you want a fight - I'm ready. You should know beforehand that I have some pretty big guns in my corner I can call on. You decide.
Desiree:
I was just going over your emails (all 496 of them) and got to this one. Remember this? You say "You don't know anything about him...". HA! Boy did I turn out to be right about him, huh?
Look at that...look how in love you guys were. Ah, so cute. And that you were so willing to put Kris before Gabriel. How proud you must be.
I didn't put Kris before Gabriel. And yes, I was in love with him. He never talked down to me, never insulted me, treated me wonderfully when he was with me. He did very wrong things and chose a lifestyle I could not follow or agree with so that relationship will not happen, but I did love him very much.
Here's how you put him before Gabriel:
- you knew he took Gabriel to the store to pass the counterfeit notes but you continued to defend him and have him supervise Gabriel in your absence;
- you knew he was illegally in possession of deadly weapons (which is a felony because he's a prohibited possessor) yet you left him, and the weapons, to take care of Gabriel;
- you spent your very limited financial resources supporting him rather than using those resources on Gabriel;
- you chose to spend the time and money to go to LA for a hearing for the restraining order (an order we both now know was entirely justified) rather than realizing he was a bad person and shouldn't be around your children - you chose to turn a blind eye to what he was doing even though it put your children in harm's way.
About you loving him: how is it that with people like you "love" can come and go so quickly? Kind of gives "love" a bad rap, don't you think?